

Words for Worship
Ministry Today

The tune to
come all ye faithful
is as famous
as the hymn’s words.
And that is probably
because of its
alternative wording.
For who has not sung
the more profane words–
why are waiting –
to this ancient music.
Well, today
as we wait through advent,
I hope we know
why we are waiting.
But you know
the important question
is not why are we waiting
but how are waiting?
For you see
there are different qualities
of waiting.
Doubtless our young folk
are waiting
with almost uncontainable excitement
for Christmas day
with its presents and jollities.
We also wait
for that holy day
with its family meals
and friends’ visits
with happy anticipation.
But we know
there can be other emotions
involved in waiting.
For, when we are expecting
a difficult phone call
or some dreaded results
or a fat bill,
then waiting is not pleasant.
Then the quality of waiting
is poor.
So how do we improve
the quality
of our life’s waiting?
Well, we could use
this advent’s waiting
as a practice
for life’s waiting.
We could test out
new ways of waiting
this Christmastime.
Indeed we could study
the annunciation story
as a seminar
on better answering that question;
not why we are waiting
but how are we waiting.
Let us therefore follow Mary
into a better type of waiting –
into a serenity of waiting –
into genuinely living
by a hope-filled waiting.
Because let’s face it -
Gabriel’s news to Mary
that God
had put a course of events
in train
that would mean
her having a child
outside wedlock
must have been,
to say the least,
unsettling.
We can imagine
her chaotic fears
of being ostracised
and pilloried
and sneered at.
And she is no better
than she ought –
we can hear ringing out.
Yet instead of going
into a blue funk,
she responded initially
with resignation,
then with anticipation
and ultimately with joy.
In essence, throughout,
she responded with faith.
The same faith
we have been growing
for ourselves
over the last few months;
the faith that
if God has started
something running
then he guides
the consequences
and guarantees the outcome.
Or, to put it
in simpler possible terms,
the faith that God
is still around
in our waiting.
To illustrate that point
Keith Wagner
tells a story
that we will set
on Christmas eve.
For it was then
we went into a jeweler
to get a new battery
in his watch.
He waited in the queue
with apprehension
since he was certain
that the last thing
any shop assistant
wanted to do
on the busiest shopping day
of the year
was to install
a new battery in a watch.
Much to my surprise
the man said
he would be glad
to put in the battery.
He could leave it
or he could wait.
He chose to wait.
But now another fear
entered his mind.
Surely, he was going
to pay over the odds
for this small service
in a mobbed shop.
But when the assistant
returned
and he only charged him
a few pounds.
Keith goes on to remark
that in the midst of all
that shopaholic mania
he experienced
the reality that life goes on
and the simplest of things
continue
in spite of the world’s craziness.
In fact, as he gratefully left the store,
watch in hand,
ticking time along,
he had a sense of peace
that God is still
in the midst of
all the waiting.
So if your quality of waiting
is poor this Christmas –
will the dinner be ready on time? –
will they like their presents? –
will great aunt Agatha
fall out with dog
as she does every year? –
then never fear.
Just follow Mary’s way of faith.
Don’t’ give into
the minds’ scaremongery
or gloomy predictions.
Don’t fear that events
are chaotic
and life
is meaningless.
Moreover, do not let your waiting
be hopeless.
Instead let it
be like Mary’s waiting.
Let it be faithful,
hopeful and optimistic.
Let it be serene,
accepting and expectant.
Let it show
you know God is around it
and in the midst of it
and he knows
what he is doing.
Indeed, let it show
that you understand
the lines from psalm 25:
Keep watch over me
and keep me out of trouble;
Don’t let me down when I run to you.
Use your skill to put to me together
I wait to see your finished product.
Just inside the main entrance
to Harrods,
that great London department store,
there is a statue of Princess Diana.
A twelve-year-old girl
recently stood in front of it
and asked,
“Who is Princess Diana?”
And that question
caused her mother
to tell the story of a woman
who remains probably
the icon of the 80s and 90s.
For, although we know her story,
we forget that younger people
may not.
Well, of course,
our youngster think
they know
the story of Christmas.
They know about the manger
and angels
and the shepherds
and the wise men.
Yet do they really know
the true story
of a child
who would prove
to be the very icon
of God with us?
So we need to tell
that story again.
And the best way
to do that
is to tell it
with our waiting.
Let it not be told
without dismay or despair.
Let it not be portrayed
faithlessly.
Instead, let it be whispered
in our acceptance;
let it be seen
but heard
in our serenity
and certainty of God’s future
for us;
let it be shown
in our knowing
the answer
to the question –
how are you waiting?
Amen
Offering
HYMN…………….
Waiting for Christmas